ADHD Rage in Adults: Why Anger Goes From 0 to 100 (And Why the Shame Comes After)

You can't remember what started it. You remember exactly what you said. ADHD rage arrives at full volume with no build-up, and the shame afterward lasts longer than the anger did. This post explains why the fuse is so short, why "just count to ten" fails adults with ADHD, and seven moves that change the pattern, written for the person who yelled and the partner who searched this at midnight.