ADHD Identity Development: Why Getting Better Can Feel Like Going Backwards

You're the friend people text when they think they have ADHD. Your diagnosis was years ago and you built a life that works. Then this year the floor moved: burnout, perimenopause, or both, and the systems quit. You're standing in the kitchen thinking "I already did this part." ADHD identity development runs in a loop, not a line, and losing ground is built into it.