Our most comprehensive approach involves both parent consultation sessions and individual work with your child or teen. This integrated model ensures that insights from both perspectives inform the treatment approach while parents develop the skills needed to support their child's progress at home.

Parent Consultation Sessions Focus On:

• Understanding your child's specific ADHD presentation and how it affects their daily functioning

• Developing ADHD-informed parenting strategies that reduce conflict and increase connection

• Learning to distinguish between ADHD-related challenges and typical developmental behaviors

• Creating family structures and routines that support your child's executive functioning needs

• Processing your own emotional responses to your child's ADHD journey

• Coordinating with schools and other providers for consistent support

Child/Teen Therapy Sessions Address:

• Building self-understanding and ADHD awareness in age-appropriate ways

• Developing executive functioning skills and organizational strategies

• Managing emotional dysregulation and building frustration tolerance

• Improving social skills and peer relationships

• Building self-esteem and addressing negative self-talk related to ADHD experiences

• Creating strategies for academic success and independence

Your teenager refuses therapy? Your child says they don't need help? You can still create significant positive changes in your family dynamics and your child's functioning through parent-focused work. Often, when parents shift their approach and understanding, children naturally begin to respond differently without ever setting foot in a therapy office.

Co-Parenting Support Addresses:

• Understanding how your reactions and responses may inadvertently maintain problematic patterns

• Learning ADHD-informed strategies that reduce power struggles and increase cooperation

• Developing consistent approaches between parents/caregivers

• Creating family environments that naturally support ADHD brains

• Managing your own stress and emotional regulation to model healthy coping

• Building stronger parent-child connections that motivate positive behavior changes

Many parents are surprised to discover how much their child's behavior improves when family dynamics shift, even without the child participating directly in therapy. When parents stop approaching ADHD symptoms as behavioral choices and start responding to the underlying neurobiological needs, children often naturally begin to regulate and cooperate more effectively.

Our comprehensive assessment process evaluates not only your child's ADHD presentation but also family dynamics, communication patterns, and system strengths. This holistic evaluation ensures that treatment recommendations address the full picture of your family's needs and goals.

Assessment Includes:

• Individual evaluation of your child's ADHD symptoms and their impact across settings

• Family system assessment to understand interaction patterns and dynamics

• Parent consultation to gather developmental history and family context

• Coordination with schools and other providers as needed

• Comprehensive treatment planning that involves all family members appropriately

Our co-parenting support sessions provide specialized guidance for both parents together, recognizing that ADHD and/or other mental health challenges affect the entire family system and that parenting approaches work best when both caregivers are aligned, informed, and mutually supportive. This collaborative approach addresses the unique challenges that arise when two parents are navigating ADHD parenting together, whether they share similar perspectives or bring different viewpoints to their child's care.

Dyadic Parent Support Addresses:

• Developing unified ADHD-informed parenting strategies that both parents can implement consistently across different situations and settings

• Aligning approaches to daily routines, homework, and behavioral challenges so your child receives consistent support and expectations from both parents

• Coordinating school advocacy efforts and ensuring both parents understand their child's educational needs and rights

• Making joint decisions about medication and healthcare coordination while ensuring both parents feel informed and comfortable with treatment choices

• Processing both parents' emotional responses to your child's ADHD journey, including different grief processes, worry levels, and coping styles

• Balancing your child's ADHD needs with other family members' needs while ensuring both parents feel supported in managing complex family dynamics

• Creating shared vision and goals for your child's future while addressing any differences in expectations or concerns

• Addressing varying levels of guilt, worry, and exhaustion that each parent may experience, and developing mutual support strategies

• Managing different parenting styles and finding ways to leverage each parent's strengths while maintaining consistency

• Navigating disagreements about ADHD management, discipline approaches, or treatment decisions in productive ways

• Supporting each other through challenging periods and developing strategies for tag-teaming during difficult times

• Addressing relationship stress that ADHD parenting may create between partners and maintaining connection while managing increased family demands

• Planning for crisis situations and ensuring both parents know how to respond effectively to behavioral escalations or school emergencies

This collaborative approach ensures that both parents feel equipped, aligned, and mutually supportive as they navigate the complexities of raising a child with ADHD, strengthening both their parenting partnership and their family's overall resilience.

Parent Support Groups

Our parent support groups provide connection with other families navigating similar challenges, reducing isolation and offering practical strategies from those with lived experience. Group sessions combine educational components with peer support, creating a comprehensive learning environment.

Group Benefits Include:

• Validation and understanding from other ADHD parents

• Practical strategy sharing for common challenges

• Emotional support during difficult periods

• Education about ADHD, child development, and effective interventions

• Reduced feelings of isolation and stigma

• Cost-effective access to specialized ADHD parenting support

• Normalization of both struggles and successes in ADHD families

Our innovative Accountability-Assisted Therapy program provides additional support for translating therapeutic insights into consistent behavioral change—often the biggest challenge for individuals with ADHD. This evidence-based enhancement works alongside your primary therapy to address executive functioning barriers to progress.

How It Works:

• Skills and exercises are assigned by your primary therapist based on your treatment goals

• Trained accountability partners provide structured support between therapy sessions

• Lower-cost skill practice sessions bridge the gap between weekly therapy and daily life

• Regular check-ins help maintain momentum on therapeutic homework and goal implementation

• Integration with your primary therapy ensures all support remains aligned with your treatment plan

This program is available as an enhancement to individual, group, couples, or family therapy services and provides the additional scaffolding many ADHD clients need for successful treatment outcomes.

Parent Consultation for ADHD and/or Anxiety

Our parent consultation services provide specialized guidance for families navigating ADHD, anxiety, or the complex intersection of both conditions in their child's life. These focused sessions offer expert assessment, practical strategies, and professional recommendations tailored to your family's specific situation, whether you're seeking initial direction, second opinions, or support during challenging periods.

Brilla's Unique Approach: The SPACE Framework Integration

At Brilla, we utilize an innovative approach that combines the SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions) framework with our specialized understanding of ADHD and executive functioning. This dual approach recognizes that many children develop anxiety as a secondary response to unmet ADHD needs, and that effective treatment requires carefully calibrated adjustments in two directions:

Decreasing Anxiety Accommodations: Using SPACE principles, we help parents gradually reduce accommodations that inadvertently maintain or increase anxiety while building your child's confidence in managing difficult emotions independently.

Increasing ADHD Accommodations: Simultaneously, we help families implement appropriate supports for executive functioning challenges, ensuring your child receives the neurobiological accommodations they need to succeed without having to compensate through anxiety or compulsive behaviors.

This balanced approach prevents the common cycle where unaddressed ADHD symptoms create overwhelming stress that manifests as anxiety, which then gets accommodated while the underlying executive functioning needs remain unmet.

Comprehensive Consultation Addresses:

• Distinguishing between necessary ADHD supports and anxiety accommodations that may be counterproductive to your child's long-term development

• Understanding the relationship between unmet executive functioning needs and the development of anxious or compulsive behaviors

• Developing targeted intervention strategies that provide appropriate structure for ADHD while building anxiety tolerance and emotional regulation

• Educational planning that balances accommodations with skill-building opportunities, ensuring your child receives support without becoming overly dependent

• Implementing SPACE techniques to reduce parental behaviors that inadvertently reinforce anxiety while maintaining necessary ADHD supports

• Creating clear distinctions between "can't do" (executive functioning limitations) and "won't do" (anxiety avoidance) to guide appropriate responses

• Behavioral strategy development that builds executive functioning skills while gradually increasing tolerance for difficult emotions

• Family system assessment to identify patterns where anxiety accommodations may be masking or exacerbating underlying ADHD challenges

• Crisis planning and intervention that addresses both immediate anxiety management and longer-term executive functioning skill development

• Progress monitoring guidance to track improvements in both ADHD symptom management and anxiety reduction

• Parent education on executive functioning and how to provide appropriate scaffolding without creating learned helplessness or anxiety dependence

When to Consider Our Specialized Consultation:

• Your child seems to use anxiety or worry to avoid tasks that may actually be challenging due to ADHD-related executive functioning difficulties

• You're unsure whether to accommodate or challenge certain behaviors in your child

• Previous anxiety treatments haven't been effective, and you suspect underlying ADHD may be contributing

• Your child has both ADHD and anxiety diagnoses, but interventions seem to conflict with each other

• You notice your child becoming more anxious when ADHD supports are reduced, or more ADHD-symptomatic when anxiety is accommodated

• Your family feels stuck in patterns of accommodation that aren't helping your child build independence

• You want to ensure interventions address root causes rather than just managing surface symptoms

Consultation Format Options:

Single Session Intensive: Comprehensive 90-minute consultation providing immediate assessment of accommodation patterns and targeted recommendations for balancing ADHD supports with anxiety reduction

Short-Term Series: 3-4 focused sessions allowing for gradual implementation of SPACE techniques while building appropriate ADHD accommodations

Ongoing Consultation: Regular monthly or quarterly check-ins to support long-term balance between necessary supports and independence building

Crisis Consultation: Immediate support when anxiety and ADHD symptoms are creating overwhelming family dynamics, with strategic planning for sustainable change

Specialized Expertise in Dual Approach:

Our consultation services are provided by clinicians trained in both SPACE methodology and advanced ADHD intervention strategies. We understand that effective treatment requires nuanced decision-making about when to provide support versus when to build tolerance, ensuring that accommodations serve your child's long-term development rather than inadvertently maintaining problematic patterns.

Ready to Find the Right Balance for Your Family?

Our specialized approach helps families navigate the complex intersection of ADHD and anxiety by providing clear guidance on when to accommodate and when to challenge. This balanced intervention prevents the common cycle where unaddressed ADHD needs fuel anxiety, which then gets accommodated while executive functioning challenges remain unresolved.

Contact us today to schedule your consultation and learn how our integrated approach can help your child thrive.

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Structural Strategic Family Therapy for ADHD Families

When one or more family members have ADHD, it creates ripple effects throughout the entire family system, often leading to rigid patterns, unclear boundaries, and problematic hierarchies that maintain rather than resolve ADHD-related challenges. Our structural strategic family therapy approach focuses on reorganizing family structures and interaction patterns to create healthier functioning that supports both ADHD needs and overall family wellbeing.

Understanding Family Systems and ADHD

ADHD doesn't exist in isolation—it interacts with family structures, roles, and communication patterns in complex ways. Families often develop compensatory structures around ADHD symptoms: parents may become overly involved in managing one child's executive functioning, siblings may take on inappropriate caretaking roles, or family boundaries may become either too rigid or too loose in response to ADHD-related chaos.

Our structural strategic approach identifies these patterns and works to reorganize family structures so that everyone can function optimally while the ADHD family member receives appropriate support without the family system becoming organized entirely around managing symptoms.

Structural Strategic Family Therapy Addresses:

• Reorganizing family hierarchies that may have become distorted due to ADHD management needs, ensuring parents maintain appropriate authority while children develop age-appropriate autonomy

• Clarifying boundaries and roles when ADHD has created confusion about who is responsible for what, preventing over-functioning and under-functioning patterns

• Restructuring communication patterns that have developed around ADHD challenges, moving from reactive responses to proactive, strategic interactions

• Addressing triangulation patterns where family members may align inappropriately around ADHD issues, creating dysfunction in other relationships

• Rebalancing family attention and resources when ADHD needs have inadvertently created imbalances that affect other family members' wellbeing

• Creating strategic interventions to interrupt problematic family patterns while building new, healthier structures around ADHD support

• Developing family flexibility to accommodate ADHD needs without becoming rigidly organized around symptom management

• Establishing appropriate consequences and supports that work within the family's natural hierarchy and cultural context

• Addressing coalition patterns between family members that may maintain problematic dynamics around ADHD management

• Building family resilience through structural changes that support both ADHD accommodation and healthy family functioning

Strategic Interventions for ADHD Family Patterns

Our approach utilizes specific strategic techniques designed to shift entrenched family patterns around ADHD:

Enactment and Restructuring: We observe and modify family interactions in real-time, helping families practice new ways of communicating and problem-solving around ADHD challenges while maintaining appropriate family structure.

Boundary Making: We help families establish clear boundaries around ADHD support—when to help, when to step back, and how to maintain individual autonomy within family interdependence.

Reframing and Relabeling: We help families understand ADHD behaviors within a systemic context, reducing blame and pathology while increasing strategic responses that support positive change.

Strategic Tasks and Directives: We assign specific behavioral changes designed to shift family patterns, often working indirectly to create structural changes that support both ADHD management and healthy family functioning.

When Structural Strategic Therapy is Indicated:

• Family life has become entirely organized around managing one member's ADHD symptoms

• Parents are burnt out from over-managing ADHD while other family members feel neglected

• Sibling relationships are strained due to unequal attention or responsibilities related to ADHD

• Family members are taking on inappropriate roles (children parenting parents, parents enabling rather than supporting)

• Communication has become primarily focused on ADHD problems rather than family connection and growth

• Previous individual or traditional family therapy hasn't created lasting structural changes

• Family members feel stuck in repetitive patterns around ADHD management that aren't working

• There's significant conflict about how to handle ADHD-related challenges within the family

Treatment Process and Timeline

Structural strategic family therapy is typically a shorter-term intervention (12-20 sessions) focused on creating specific structural changes rather than long-term insight development. Sessions are active and directive, with therapists working to create immediate changes in family patterns through strategic interventions and structural modifications.

Phase 1: Assessment and Joining - Understanding current family structure and patterns around ADHD Phase 2: Challenging and Restructuring - Actively working to shift problematic patterns and create new family structures
Phase 3: Consolidation - Reinforcing new patterns and ensuring sustainable structural changes

Specialized Expertise in ADHD Family Systems

Our structural strategic approach is provided by clinicians with advanced training in both family systems therapy and ADHD presentations across the lifespan. We understand how ADHD symptoms interact with family structures and can design strategic interventions that create lasting change while honoring neurobiological differences.

This approach is particularly effective for families who feel stuck in patterns that aren't working, where individual therapy hasn't created sufficient systemic change, or where ADHD management has begun to negatively impact overall family functioning and relationships.

Ready to Transform Your Family Dynamics?

Structural strategic family therapy offers a focused, active approach to reorganizing family patterns around ADHD in ways that support both symptom management and healthy family functioning. This evidence-based method creates sustainable changes that benefit the entire family system.

Contact us today to learn how structural strategic family therapy can help your family develop healthier patterns while supporting your ADHD family member's needs.

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While our clinical team specializes in ADHD-informed therapy and treatment, we recognize that comprehensive care often requires formal diagnostic evaluation and medication management. We have carefully cultivated a curated network of psychiatrists and psychologists who have been personally vetted by Lauren to ensure their understanding of ADHD and other neurodivergent conditions in women reflects the latest research and clinical best practices.

Our Community Partners Provide:

• Up-to-date diagnostic evaluations that recognize the unique ways ADHD presents in women

• Comprehensive psychological testing when indicated

• Medication management with understanding of hormonal factors and women-specific considerations

• Affirming, trauma-informed approaches that honor your lived experience

• Clinically sound assessments that avoid common diagnostic pitfalls and biases

When we provide a warm handoff to one of our community partners, you can trust that you'll receive an evaluation or medication consultation that is both clinically excellent and deeply informed about the complexities of neurodivergent presentations in women. This collaborative approach ensures continuity of care and understanding across all aspects of your treatment journey.

Coordination with Other Providers

Managing ADHD often requires a team approach involving multiple professionals. We help coordinate care between therapists, psychiatrists, educational specialists, and other providers to ensure consistent, comprehensive support for your child and family.

Our Coordination Services:

• Communication with your child's treatment team

• Integration of therapeutic strategies with other interventions

• Support during medication adjustments or treatment changes

• Advocacy for your family's needs across different providers

• Coordination of treatment goals and progress monitoring

Parent Support Groups

Our parent support groups provide connection with other families navigating similar challenges, reducing isolation and offering practical strategies from those with lived experience. Group sessions combine educational components with peer support, creating a comprehensive learning environment.